Friday, September 30, 2011
The following compatibility Libra with other stars:
A basic difference in your personalities is that LIBRA likes to look at both sides of an issue and consider any situation from every angle. LIBRA likes to discuss ideas with others, get their opinion, and sometimes has difficulty coming to a definitive decision. ARIES is prone to be just the opposite, taking a strong, more one-sided view of a situation and frequently is uninterested in hearing others' point of view. In order for your relationship to work, you will have to reconcile this basic difference in your personalities. Over time, LIBRA may feel that ARIES is a selfish egotist and ARIES may feel that LIBRA is a weak-willed wimp. Obviously, you will need to have greater appreciation and respect for each other than this! LIBRA makes many more compromises and accommodations for the relationship than ARIES does.
You are both lovers of peace and harmony, and avoid conflict and tension as much as possible. There is a cordial, soft quality to your relationship that makes it very pleasant, and these qualities draw many friends and acquaintances to you as well. Beneath the smooth facade, however, you do have your differences! Very often LIBRA is more socially oriented and communicative, while TAURUS is too busy with interests, hobbies, or work and is not willing to join LIBRA in conversation, social activity, or entertainment. TAURUS needs to be less inflexible at times. Also, aesthetics are very important to both of you, and you probably disagree on matters of style from time to time.
You have an excellent mental rapport, and you enjoy one another's intelligence, wit, and style. Both of you are very social creatures who thrive on interaction with people, cultural activities and conversation. Your match is likely to be a very egalitarian one, for you both want a partner who is an equal and a friend above all else.
LIBRA is very considerate, has a strong desire to please GEMINI (or any partner) and will compromise readily; LIBRA always sees numerous possibilities or desirable alternatives, and you both have trouble being decisive or making up your minds sometimes.
There are some similarities between you, and also some significant differences in your temperaments and needs.
Both of you are thoughtful, considerate, sensitive to, and aware of, other people's needs. Having good personal relationships is very important to both of you, and you make harmony and peace in your personal lives a very high priority. You both avoid conflict and confrontation if at all possible.
The differences are thus: LIBRA is more objective, rational, and fair compared to CANCER, who is subjective, emotional, and biased by personal sympathies and loyalties. Though seemingly sympathetic, LIBRA can be surprisingly cool and intellectual when problems arise between the two of you. CANCER responds very personally and emotionally. LIBRA needs more communication and conversation than CANCER seems to.
Also, LIBRA wants to relate as an equal and a peer, while CANCER wants to mother or be mothered by a partner. So CANCER is more comfortable with becoming emotionally or financially dependent on a partner (or having the partner dependent in that way), while LIBRA wants a more egalitarian relationship. These differences can cause misunderstandings between you, but rarely are they a source of major conflict.
This can be a very warm and mutually fulfilling relationship. Both of you are romantics at heart and tend to be "in love with love". You both need and love romantic gestures, the giving and receiving of gifts, etc. Personal appearances and attractiveness is important to both of you as well, and you both are somewhat vain.
LEO is more decisive and very clear about personal preferences and desires, while LIBRA is more flexible and will compromise graciously in order to please LEO. LEO is more self-absorbed or self-centered than LIBRA. Of the two of you, LEO is the stronger individual, and the balance of power in your relationship may be somewhat lopsided. However, LIBRA has a highly developed sense of fairness and equality, and will protest sooner or later if LEO begins to expect obeisance all of the time.
LIBRA loves company and can talk endlessly with friends, and loves to hear others' experiences and thoughts on any subject. LIBRA is very accepting of different points of view and is disinclined to judge or even clearly evaluate what others say. VIRGO, on the other hand, loves to analyze and criticize, and is intolerant of illogical or erroneous thinking. VIRGO is more demanding of others and confronts others when necessary. LIBRA finds these confrontations extremely uncomfortable and often embarrassing. VIRGO is much more exacting and demanding in all areas of life. At worst, VIRGO can view LIBRA as wishy-washy, and LIBRA can view VIRGO as prim and intolerant, but hopefully your appreciation of each other is much better than this! At best, your different natures can complement each other without annoying each other.
Both of you invest enormous energy and time into personal relationships, and you both feel incomplete without a partner for companionship, conversation, and affection. For both of you, an experience isn't really satisfying unless it is SHARED.
You both possess tact, diplomacy, charm, and a very strong desire for harmony in relationships. Furthermore, you both tend to want to please everyone all of the time, to be liked by everyone, and therefore you often avoid taking strong, decisive stands or directly confronting thorny interpersonal problems. You want things to be nice, pretty, and pleasant. You are apt to adapt your own preferences or change your position to suit your partner.
However, both of you also have a highly developed sense of fairness, balance, and proportion. Equality is very important to the two of you and in this relationship (as perhaps in no other) you will certainly have an equal relationship, with neither of you dominating.
Beauty is very important to both of you, also, and many of your discussions revolve around issues of taste and style.
In many situations, SCORPIO will respond with greater emotional intensity than LIBRA. While LIBRA is not a cool and aloof individual, SCORPIO's feelings can run deeper. For example, both of you want a close relationship, but SCORPIO can become intensely fixated on a person and possessive, whereas LIBRA maintains a sense of proportion and some reasonable degree of objectivity and emotional distance from others, even in marriage. SCORPIO's "urge to merge" can be very powerful. LIBRA's approach to life, in general, tends to be more moderate and well-balanced, while SCORPIO tends to periodically become intensely focused on some area of concern and become even fanatical in pursuit of some interest. LIBRA's detached fairness can infuriate SCORPIO at times, and SCORPIO's inexplicable dark moods or fervent responses bewilder LIBRA. These differences need not create serious problems in your relationship. Emotional bonds between you can be very strong, especially if other astrological indications indicate strong romantic or sexual ties.
Both of you are outgoing, friendly people. You enjoy socializing and you enjoy each other's company immensely. Very often SAGITTARIUS provides extra "zing" to the relationship with lots of grandiose ideas, dreams, visions, and restless wanderlust. LIBRA helps provide a more balanced, sensible perspective while usually being sympathetic to SAGITTARIUS as well. However, sometimes your joint activities may fail to be fruitful. LIBRA is often prone to go along with people even when there are lots of doubts. SAGITTARIUS may enthusiastically talk LIBRA into ventures that LIBRA should have the sense to question rather than meekly accept. Overall, though, this is likely to be a most enjoyable relationship.
LIBRA is very social and prefers a life style that involves lots of interaction with others. For example, a job that does not involve communication with others is very distasteful to LIBRA. CAPRICORN is more concerned with career, stature, and practical affairs than LIBRA, and many times LIBRA wishes that CAPRICORN would lighten up, take life less seriously, and simply be more fun to be with. CAPRICORN seems a little old-fashioned at times too, which is frequently not agreeable with LIBRA. You can help complement each other also, with CAPRICORN contributing more to establishing a secure, well-founded plan for your lives and the future of your children (if you are married and have children), while LIBRA takes the time to maintain social contacts and keep life in balance, making sure that pressures of work and other responsibilities do not become overwhelming. Pleasure and aesthetics are important to LIBRA, and less so to CAPRICORN. Also, CAPRICORN tends to be autocratic and LIBRA is more democratic or egalitarian.
Both of you are very social, active people. You are involved in community groups, and your line of work probably brings you into contact with lots of people. You harmonize well with each other and are great friends.
AQUARIUS is very attached to clubs, social groups, and colleagues. LIBRA may feel that AQUARIUS needs friends more than a marriage partner or lover. In fact, LIBRA devotes much more attention to any close partnership. This difference in orientation is fairly subtle, however, and may not be a source of difficulty or conflict. You both tend to live in your minds, and enjoy a partner who is awake and alive mentally - an intellectual peer. Fortunately, you have this in one another.
Both of you are good listeners and you are receptive to others' points of view, and you dislike having to engage in competitive behavior or aggressive tactics in order to get your point across or receive fair treatment. You appreciate that your partner shares your gentle attitude. LIBRA, however, may sometimes feel that PISCES is too gentle and receptive, being evasive or vague when asked questions or unable to be definite and articulate. LIBRA thrives on dialogue while PISCES often prefers to simply take in lots of ideas and ponder them for a long time before offering a point of view. LIBRA also has a strong sense of justice and equality and can be vengeful towards those who are seen as unjust, while PISCES is more likely to feel compassion and sympathy even for those who are guilty.